Preventing Burnout in Ministry: What Jesus and Paul Teach Us About Faithfulness and Rest
- Jared Milam
- Apr 10
- 5 min read

If you've spent any time in ministry, then you've likely heard the term "burned out." It's something that no one wants to experience, but unfortunately, it's a reality for many of us in the field. The weight of pouring out our time, energy, and emotions can be overwhelming, and sometimes, in an effort to prevent burnout, we find ourselves making excuses to avoid participating in ministry or stepping away from responsibilities. We justify it as a way to prevent “burnout.” But what happens to the hard work of ministry? What about the call to serve, to pour ourselves out for others?
Jesus and the apostles show us a better way—a way to pour ourselves out without burning out. Let's take a look at some key principles that can help us do just that.
The Principle of Being "Poured Out"
Paul frequently used the metaphor of being "poured out" to describe his own ministry. In Philippians 2:17, Paul says, “But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you.” He says something similar in 2 Timothy 4:6: “For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time for my departure is near.” This image of being poured out reflects the sacrificial nature of ministry—giving of yourself in service to God and others.
But how do we, as followers of Christ, pour ourselves out without burning out? The key is not in stopping the work, but in how we do it.
1. Stay Connected with the Father
This might sound like a “ministry 101” answer, but it can’t be overstated: stay connected with God. Jesus understood that ministry is only sustainable when it's rooted in a deep connection with the Father. Mark 6:31 captures this moment perfectly: “Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, ‘Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.’” Even Jesus, in his relentless ministry, knew when it was time to pull away and recharge.
In Luke 5:16, we see that Jesus regularly withdrew to lonely places to pray. The busyness of ministry and life can overwhelm us, but Jesus shows us that solitude with God is not optional—it's essential. If we want to do the hard work of ministry well, we must prioritize time alone with God. And this isn’t just “making time for Jesus”; Jesus must be everything: the thing we need in order to live every day. All the strength, wisdom, and endurance we need come from him. The more we spend time with him, the more we’re able to be faithful in the tasks he has called us to, without losing ourselves in the process.
In life, we are used to outgrowing things. We are supposed to “grow up” (or at least our parents hope we do) and become responsible adults that don’t need mom and dad for everything. So often, we treat God like this: the more I learn, the less I need Him. But that’s not what I have found to be true: the more I press into God, the more time I spend with him, the more I realize how utterly I need him for every part of my life.
So don’t squeeze Jesus into your already busy day. Instead, order your day around the time you spend with Him. This won’t be easy. Work, ministry, marriage, kids, friends, neighbors, they are all vying for our attention and “need” us. But what they really need is a you that is filled with the power and presence of God.
Find your mountain top or lonely place and find it often. Let God remind you that you are his child. He gives you purpose and orders your day. Only then can you begin to know what it is like to pour yourself out without burning yourself out.
2. Give Up the Outcomes of Your Ministry
In today’s world, we’re conditioned to believe that results are everything. Whether it’s in business, personal life, or ministry, the pressure to produce is high. However, if we’re not careful, we can carry that same mindset into our work for the Kingdom of God. The reality is, the Kingdom doesn’t work on a results-based economy. That’s what legalism does. The grace of God is at work in our lives, and that grace is what enables us to be faithful—not the results we produce.
You were loved by God long before you accomplished anything for Him. Your value isn't in what you produce. To summarize Elaine Heath’s thoughts on the subject, “You are the Lord’s beloved. There is nothing you can or have to do to earn his love.” Stop trying to prove yourself or validate your calling by bringing results to God to lay at his feet. That’s not what he requires from us.
Instead, God calls us to faithfulness. In the Parable of the Talents (Matthew 25:14-30), the servants who invested their talents—whether they were given five or two —were praised for their faithfulness, not their results. The one servant who buried his talent out of fear was rebuked, not for failing to make a profit or gain a desired result, but for his lack of faithfulness. The outcome was not in his control; his responsibility was simply to invest what had been given to him.
Paul also reflects this attitude in 1 Corinthians 3:6-7: “I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow.” It’s simple. We work and serve, but it is God who brings the results.
How to Prevent Burnout: Be Faithful, Not Results-Obsessed
So, how do we apply these lessons to prevent burnout without neglecting the work of the ministry? It’s simple, really: stay connected with the Father and give up control over the outcomes. When we try to control the results, it leads to exhaustion. Shifting constantly, trying different strategies, and stressing about the outcome will wear you down. Instead, be faithful in the task God has given you, but give the outcome to Him. It’s not yours to control.
So often, we spin our wheels trying to come up with the latest strategy, idea or new way of reaching people for the Kingdom. We lament over results that aren’t “good enough” and hit the drawing board again, frustrating our volunteers and exhausting those under us. Honestly, why do we think we can do ministry better than Jesus? He didn’t run programs or campaigns. He didn’t stress about people walking away or not following Him. Instead, he freely healed the sick and cast out demons, offered radical grace, showed sacrificial love, raised the bar on faithfulness, and crushed legalism. He welcomed sinners, rested when He needed to, and never once seemed hurried or burnt out.
When we follow Jesus' example and pour ourselves out, we can trust that God will handle the results. And even when the ministry feels draining, we can find rest and renewal in him, knowing that his work is sufficient.
Final Thoughts
Burnout isn’t inevitable. It can be avoided when we stay grounded in our relationship with God and resist the pressure to measure our success by worldly standards. We are not called to outcomes; we are called to faithfulness. When we focus on that, we can pour ourselves out without losing ourselves, knowing that God is the one who brings the growth.
In your ministry, stay rooted in the Father, give up control over the results, and trust that God will use your faithfulness for His glory. It was always about Him anyway.